Our daughter expects to take care of the child even when her sick child is. Helps!

My husband and I, in the 1970s, offer the child’s sponsorship to our 18 -month -old grandson. You spend two days a week with us and three days in daytime care. She is often sick, has contracted RSV, colds and influenza from her. When I suggested to my daughter to keep our grandson at home in the worst days, she replied that my bacterial anxiety was causing Ha Anxiety and it will use daytime sponsorship full time. (She also said I need professional help.) The case: My husband is devastating! He wants to take care of our granddaughter, whether she is sick or not. But if ill, I will do too. I am a bottle, but I am still exposed. So I am hesitant to make plans with friends, and cancel others, for fear of injuring people. Meanwhile, my daughter accuses me of rejecting a “gift” to spend time with our granddaughter. Helps!

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I am sorry that your daughter spoke to you in an unresolved way – while she is introducing a well -known for her, no less! I sympathize with her need to care for reliable children, which are often difficult to find and expensive. But provided that you do not have your responsibility. You have already raised your children. If you and your husband want to participate, wonderful! But it is also reasonable to discuss your limits: Who will take care of the child when you are sick or contagious?

Even if your daughter moves her child to full time care, there is still a matter of her sending when she is sick. The stomach children are not generally welcome. Framing your reasonable attention to your health as a hypothyroidism – while receiving her own need to care for the child as a gift – seems to be tampered with.

So, to a possible solution: your husband wants to take care of your grandson regardless of her health. Perhaps in the days when she is sick, he can see her at your daughter’s house. He must hide and wash his hands frequently. And if it is strict about this protocol, it may be able to pull it without getting sick or infect you. If he cannot, the child care experience has ended!

For my partner birthday, I took it to Hippest in our city. Its website says that reservations are unacceptable and that first is presented first is a fair experience for everyone. So, we waited for a cold for 30 minutes. When we were in the queue in the queue, we saw the employees paid together several tables and even the transfer of a couple sitting already to accommodate a six -year -old party that was behind us in the queue. Then the host told us that there would be no room for us in that evening. Was the restaurant dirty?

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Dirty dirty! Unless there is a display on the website of the restaurant on the web that the reservations are acceptable to the large ends (which I sometimes see), I think you are unfairly treated. Call the manager to report your experience. The host may have made a mistake in the ruling in that evening. We all make mistakes!

If the manager does not apologize (or provides you with something small to seduce you), be sure to rest in knowing that even the most hormone joints shorten their average age when they deal with customers badly.

My family plans to attend the wedding of the international destination for a relative. I appreciate the flight will cost more than $ 8,000 to air travel, rent cars, hotels and food. However, we are pleased to take this trip to the happy couple. My question: What is our commitment to gifts towards the wedding couple when we spend a lot to attend their wedding?

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In my experience in international wedding parties (Grand Total: Two), the couples implicitly admit the cost of traveling with a simple line in their invitations: No gifts, please. She complied and wrote congratulatory messages instead. Therefore, check the invitation if you haven’t received one yet.

If the invitation is silent about gifts, let the proper sense and the budget your guide. Eight dollars is much more than you usually spend to attend a wedding, assume, and the wedding couple knows this. So, think about a symbolic gift or a warm message instead of your usual gift, if you want. There is no wedding – not even for a near relative – worth breaking the bank.

My partner has lost the sensitivity of a bud, so he doesn’t eat much. But he buys ice cream and says that eating it is my treatment for him. I face my weight, and it is difficult to resist ice cream if it is at home. We discussed this with eighth without a solution. advice?

a partner

I also wrestle with sweets. But this does not prevent me from blocking my husband, with his metabolism faster, from bringing them to our house. Live here too! In the absence of a more serious health concern, try a solution to us: my husband keeps his candy and ice cream in his home office – away from the kitchen – and I trained myself to stay away from them. Can Minifridge work?


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